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Hearing a female say "I'll never approach a guy" is one of the craziest things I've ever heard. They say its unlady-like, it makes them look like hoes, they don't wanna boost the guys' ego, etc. Ridiculous. I say, if you like what you see, go for it. Not trying makes you a loser in my book.

I love a woman with ambition and drive, and I mean in ALL aspects. One of the sexiest things a woman can do to a man is at least TRY to take control, in the right things.That means taking the initiative in most things women wouldn't. Us guys do most of the legwork in the relationship (well I do, can't really speak for all guys) and we want to be treated and relax sometimes. I'm not saying fix the car, pay all the bills, and blah blah blah.

I mean compliment him sometimes, give a massage, HELL buy him a drink….you get what I'm saying. Just something that says "I'm a female, but you don't have to do everything for me." I'm 100% for pleasing my woman and doing things first, but it never hurts to return the favor back. Growing up I basically learned if I like a female I have to do just about everything I can to get and keep her, and she just has to be pretty and if she likes me enough, just take in all the goodness I present to her. I feel as if that way of thinking should be wiped out and a new wave of caring and responsive women should be born.
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If you think I'm gonna go on about womens' rights and feminism you might as well go elsewhere. No need to beat a dead horse. I WILL however give my viewpoints of stripping from a guys' perspective though.

Truth be told, I like strippers. They look good, they're naughty, and they don't make you talk about your feelings all night. They just wanna dance (which is fine cause I wanna watch) and take your money (this is NOT fine). I'm not gonna say that women taking off their clothes is acceptable cause its not. I respect women to the fullest because I know they're basically God's greatest creation.

MY PROBLEM with strippers is the payload they receive. Although they may go through some craziness to obtain their funds, I refuse to blow my rent money just because some female took off her top. We all have to make decisions in our life, but two wrongs don't make a right so justifying a young girl taking off her clothes to make ends meet is not gonna work.

STRIPPING = WRONG

SPENDING HARD EARNED MONEY ON STRIPPERS = WRONG

By all means, it ain't trickin' if you got it. Now I won't blame strippers for the men who leave their wife, kids, and other duties just to check out some T&A, but honestly think for a second. If all strippers stopped stripping that's more time guys will more than likely spend elsewhere. In theory, the strip club would be one less place you'll have to worry about him attending. All I'm saying is that both strippers and strip club patrons are guilty in this situation.

Besides, who the hell wants to pay and NOT play?

If that's the correct logic to have, then why even bother dating?
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