Hearing a female say "I'll never approach a guy" is one of the craziest things I've ever heard. They say its unlady-like, it makes them look like hoes, they don't wanna boost the guys' ego, etc. Ridiculous. I say, if you like what you see, go for it. Not trying makes you a loser in my book.
I love a woman with ambition and drive, and I mean in ALL aspects. One of the sexiest things a woman can do to a man is at least TRY to take control, in the right things.That means taking the initiative in most things women wouldn't. Us guys do most of the legwork in the relationship (well I do, can't really speak for all guys) and we want to be treated and relax sometimes. I'm not saying fix the car, pay all the bills, and blah blah blah.
I mean compliment him sometimes, give a massage, HELL buy him a drink….you get what I'm saying. Just something that says "I'm a female, but you don't have to do everything for me." I'm 100% for pleasing my woman and doing things first, but it never hurts to return the favor back. Growing up I basically learned if I like a female I have to do just about everything I can to get and keep her, and she just has to be pretty and if she likes me enough, just take in all the goodness I present to her. I feel as if that way of thinking should be wiped out and a new wave of caring and responsive women should be born.